I am grateful for understanding
when it comes to my friends and family
Any love I’ve ever felt deeply
will always be a part of me.
May we be blessed to understand
Love is a continuous journey…
but with love…
on every road we take
Along the way we get to enjoy
all the detours that we make.
“I noticed you two are always holding hands everywhere you go?
Why is that? ”Their granddaughter asked. “I’d really like to know.”
Grandma and Grandma smiled…Grandpa was the first to say,
“The reason we hold hands…goes back to that very first day.
when I told your Grandma I loved her,
I was afraid of what she might do…
But when she looked at me, she smiled and said
“You know…I love you too.”
“Hold my hand is all I could think to say..
because I knew if she wasn’t holding my hand
I could have easily floated away.”
“But you’ve been married for 40 years!” Their granddaughter said.
“I guess I don’t understand…why after all these years
are you two still holding hands?”
Together they looked at their granddaughter
and as the wrinkles on his face turned red…
Grandpa looked into Grandma’s eyes and smiled…
“Same reason.” was all he said.
We have spent a lifetime developing an understanding of our heartstrings…
discovering our happiness, our love, and our enjoyment…in all the little things.
Things like popcorn at the movies, falling leaves, kind words,
banana pudding, chocolate ice cream, the singing of the birds.
Puppies…singing in the shower, counting all the stars,
holding hands, family dinners, eating peanut butter from a jar.
Flying kites, reading a good book, doing something totally unplanned
Climbing a mountain, eating s’mores,
walking near the ocean with our bare feet in the sand.
Butterflies, ladybugs, rainbows, the shape of clouds up in the sky
Hot chocolate on a cold winter’s day…chasing fireflies.
Cookies warm out of the oven…the smile of a bride as she walks down the aisle
Children, grandchildren, root beer floats…a hug, a kiss…a smile.
Since we continue to discover new little things with every dawn
It makes sense that our list of little things…goes on and on and on.
And to this list today…with a happy heart…this joyous news we bring…
born yesterday (November 15th) into our family…our newest little thing.
Her name is yet to be determined but I’m happy to report
baby girl, proud Mom and Dad are doing great.
She is 18.8 inches tall…and I’ll have to leave you guessing
because one never asks a lady…even a little lady…
to tell us of her weight….
And as new great-grandparents…also just born yesterday
when it comes to Deborah and me…
we are over the moon with excitement…as happy as can be!
Speaking for the other great-grandparents, grandparents, parents
aunts and uncles who were also born yesterday….
we are all so happy little one…you decided to come our way.
One look at your face, baby girl, tells us you were worth the wait…
and reminds us when two people fall in love…
the kind of magic and the beauty
true love can create.
I am grateful to have lived the kind of life
in a love that has paid dividends….
To have grown old with the woman I love
sharing memories of a lifetime
on adventures with my family and friends
May we all be blessed to one day…
share this point of view
one that those of us who understand love…
have long ago discovered to be true
True love, is not constrained
by the arbitrary restrictions some of us create….
it can begin at any age…
and once it begins
It has no expiration date.
From the moment their life together originated
the recipe for their love was never complicated.
Through all their years together…
whatever they underwent…
the recipe they followed
had one main ingredient.
Whenever she felt she was falling…
those times she was too sad to laugh or sing…
he would put her on his shoulders
and share with her…his wings.
And he would whisper to her gently…
“We’ll get through this…I know we can.”
and she was happy not knowing where her wings ended
and…where his began
And whenever he felt he was falling…
when he thought he could no longer swim..
she would put him on her shoulders
and share her wings with him.
And she would whisper to him gently…
“We’ll get through this…I know we can.”
and he was happy now knowing where his wings ended
and…where hers began.
This one ingredient made the life they created…
peaceful, safe, enjoyable…and fun…
It’s amazing how we find our favorite recipes in life
are often the least complicated…
the simplest ones.
Today’s blessing is from an old Ojibwa prayer…
that can be prayed to any God
as it relates to all our human sisters and brothers:
Teach us love, compassion and honor
that we may heal the Earth
and help each other.
I wish when it comes to love…each person would concern themself
less with who people love each other… and more on the love itself.
Everyone falls in love the same way…
and this new sensation they are feeling
can be a little frightening while at the same time
joyous and appealing.
The more time they spend together
they find how effortlessly their love expands….
and as they become more comfortable with one another
the more then understand….
where once they only had love for themselves
(something all of us are meant to do!)
since they found each other…they now have love enough for two.
Soon the principles of math and physics they learned in school
unravel and become undone
when they realize two hearts joined together
can somehow add up to one.
How sometime in the midst of a conversation
the two of them find a way
to finish each others sentence…
knowing exactly what the other is about to say.
How, when they’re holding hands
fingers clasped, palms together…skin to skin
it’s hard to know where one hand ends…and the other hand begins.
And they find no matter how many years may pass
mo matter how many songs of theirs have been sung….
their hearts…strengthened by each other’s love
keep them…forever young.
And I like to think…what a wonderful world this would be
If of every one of us…this could be said….
that we are able to look past the people falling in love
and rejoice in the love we see instead.