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Lisa Ann Teaches DaddyO the Difference Between a Prostitute and a Porn Star

My sentence by sentence dialogue with "porn star" Lisa Ann's YouTube rant on the difference between porn stars and prostitutes...


Lisa Ann: So if you don't know who I am, I don't know where you've been, but I'm Lisa Ann!


DaddyO: Hello Lisa Ann, I am DaddyO and I have been busy defending the rights of women to make money any way they choose without being shamed by self-righteous jerks and society in general.. My passion spans the vast limits of personal civil liberties (from saintly porn star all the way down to vile prostitute!)


Lisa Ann: And I've been allowed to rant about a topic. It's very... This topic is like a daily paper cut to my eye.


DaddyO: That must hurt. It is also a good excuse to use later when you realize you don't see things very clearly.


Lisa Ann: Because I have to read things on Twitter and on social media that annoy me.


DaddyO: And I have to see and hear things on YouTube and that equally annoy me too!


Lisa Ann: So I am going to straighten this out for you right now. This is a conversation we're having - I'm talking to you. You're listening... Focus!


DaddyO: Actually you've just described a lecture, not a conversation.


Lisa Ann: The difference between a hooker, a prostitute, an escort, a lady friend...whatever the fuck you people want to call 'em... and a porn star - let's go here first.


DaddyO: Okay, the difference between the two is...?


Lisa Ann: Lady friend. Hooker.


DaddyO: Yeah you already said that, we get the point. There are other names too: Whore, harlot, provider, call girl, working girl, moll, courtesan, hustler; ho, tart. Now let's move on. What's the difference?


Lisa Ann: Most places: not legal! I think the only place it's legal is at some sort of a weird ranch where you've got to be exposed to tons of stuff that could cause a staph infection.


DaddyO: Yep, the legality is one big difference. Actually legalizing prostitution and requiring STI testing (like those "weird ranches" do) would help prevent infections.


Lisa Ann: So that's your choice there; unless you want to be a lady of the night; just be meeting dudes randomly and doing privates...escorting...not legal!


DaddyO: So your point is...? Prostitutes often work at night. Due to its intimate nature, encounters quite often are private. It is known by the term "escorting" and it is unfortunately not legal in most places.


Lisa Ann: Not the makings of a porn star.


DaddyO: I don't know, I would guess porn stars often shoot in the evening and on a private set. And, like prostitution, filming porn is also illegal in most places.


Lisa Ann: You know what a porn star does?


DaddyO: Yes, but since you actually are a porn star, please enlighten me to the details.


Lisa Ann: A porn star creates a product for the masses to enjoy.


DaddyO: And so does a prostitute! In fact the enjoyment of her "product" is overwhelmingly considered more fun than the product you produce. Very few people would want to just watch when they can participate. 


Lisa Ann: Not just for the masses to enjoy but for companies to profit from.


DaddyO: And that's supposed to be a good thing?


Lisa Ann: Yes the porn star profits but what she can bring on a level of profit to larger companies is incredible.


DaddyO: So what you're saying is that the porn company is a lot like your rich pimp, and he allows you to recoup some of the huge amount of money that he has profited due to your efforts?


Lisa Ann: For myself I still feature dance three weekends a month.


DaddyO: Oops, maybe not. You still have to work three weekends a month.


Lisa Ann: I could be a prostitute and I'm gonna let y'all know something, I could make way more fucking money being a prostitute than feature dancing...


DaddyO: Wow! Why don't you do it then?


Lisa Ann: ...and it would be a lot less work,


DaddyO: Wow! Why don't you do it then?


Lisa Ann: ...but ya know my private one on one sex is to be shared by choice for no money.


DaddyO: Oh? Who made that decision? Oh yeah, you did: the woman who doesn't like to make more money by doing less work.


Lisa Ann: The only time I take money for sex is when again I am producing this product that the reason I get paid for it is because so do other people.


DaddyO: Oh so it must be a group effort in order for you to feel good about making money. I see. Why?


Lisa Ann: So while all these girls are out doing their mattress thing at the hotel, and you see them all looking like hookers paradise on their Instagram, they're always all standing the same way look at the Instagrams.


DaddyO: Hookers have time to do Instagram? Okay, I can see that. Well I suppose they do since they make more money than you by doing less work.


Lisa Ann: I'm on the road Friday night in the grind of it all and I see these girls all out drinking at a club in Los Angeles I am like that's hookers paradise that's all I think about.


DaddyO: Really, that's all you think about when you're sweating and dancing at a club? I guess it does seem a little unfair that they can relax in that club atmosphere sipping down drinks while you get bruises on your thighs and knees working those three extra weekends.


Lisa Ann: So back to the clubs, when I go in booked clubs and I bring a crowd that elevates the girls attitudes, it brings money in for the waitresses, it brings money in for the club owners.


DaddyO: You are like a magic stripper talisman or a lucky rabbit's foot for a topless dancer!


Lisa Ann: Fans get to meet me in person. I get to interact with people on a really cool level and give them a photo for their social media, for the life.


DaddyO: Hmm, let's see, Instagram photo with Lisa Ann vs. savage fuck from a knockout prostitute? Yeah, I dunno, that's a tough one. rolls eyes


Lisa Ann: It's a fan experience. I create an experience and it's an experience that I share with the masses.


DaddyO: I would guess the experiences fans of prostitutes might have just might be, at the very least, equally as fun. Or am I missing something?


Lisa Ann: Being a prostitute is a one-on-one, very self-centered, not career building thing to choose.


DaddyO: Yes, I agree. It certainly is one-on-one. But I don't see how it is self-centered if the escorts are choosing to share something as amazing as sex with another person in a private setting. To me that sounds downright selfless. Sure everyone is entitled to their boundaries, and I'd hate to judge the "self-centeredness" of either activity, but if I had to pick one that is more self-centered, let's go with the one where you tease millions of men who have issues getting laid into fantasizing they might actually have a chance to fuck a super hot chick, all the while moonlighting as an anti-prostitution lobbyist to basically ensure this relentless teasing of these poor souls can continue. Or is it something else. You tell me...


Lisa Ann: Because when you're done from 21 to 25 hooking girls, the same guy who was buying you he's buying another 20 year old. Now you're 25, 26 you're not a MILF yet, you haven't established your brand in the business no one wants to shoot you and you're fucking broke.


DaddyO: I am having a difficult time understanding what you even mean here. Are you saying after a man has seen about two dozen prostitutes, he then goes back and spends his money on 20 year old prostitutes? Well after people have watched a dozen or so of your films I would be willing to bet they might gravitate to younger, more nubile actresses too. Though in prostitution, because there is actually a professional business relationship being established, if she is doing her job right, she might retain her client well past the age a porn star's career is toast. What was that you were saying about how a prostitute's work is not career building?


Lisa Ann: Now you're trying to find a john that will marry you...


DaddyO: If the prostitute is making more money than the porn star, why would she feel she needed to marry a man, let alone marry one of her johns?


Lisa Ann: ...from what you saw him but you know what he's already moved on. You've let your body go, you're already old, your fake hair looks tragic, that's not happening. Now you're desperate.


DaddyO: Where did you get this stereotypical idea? Even if this is a plight of prostitutes, who says the same fate might not also befall a porn star? After all, the porn star is putting her body through the ringer by dancing three weekends a month as well as taking it super hard from men with huge cocks (often up the ass). Prostitutes have time to take care of themselves, can opt not to take a client who is too rough and they can also choose to not do anal! And I doubt most johns are hung like male porn actors.


Lisa Ann: Now if you would have taken the path that I took which was understanding this is a business, and this business can provide me with the opportunity to change my life, and also influence change in other people's lives.


DaddyO: But the path they took is also a business (or at least it should be one) and it certainly is life changing and hugely influential to other people's lives. I could cite personal stories of how it did for me, but that is for another blog.


Lisa Ann: On the business level; I make people money and it feels good.


DaddyO: Does it really feel better than making most of that money for yourself AND providing a (perhaps) once in a lifetime, life-changing fantasy to a poor soul who otherwise is not going to get laid? Does leaving men with blue balls also feel good?


Lisa Ann: There's a certain power in leaving a club and having everybody say to me thank you so much Lisa we make so much money when you're there.


DaddyO: I am confused, I thought you said your job was the one that wasn't self-centered?


Lisa Ann: My attitude, the things that I do for my fans, the funds I have, its real and it's something I can actually feel and hold onto...


DaddyO: Sort of like the difference between watching sex and actually having sex?


Lisa Ann: ...whereas if I was just one on one having sex with someone every bloody Friday night I wouldn't feel that.


DaddyO: Yeah the "every Friday night, one-on-one experience" provides you with money too, and is way more apt to involve feelings, emotion, admiration and honest thankfulness.


Lisa Ann: So to me that is the difference between a prostitute and a porn star.


DaddyO: And to me, that is the difference between a clueless porn star who somehow thinks prostitution is something that is "beyond" her, yet has no logical reason to believe that way and a hard working prostitute providing life affirming, sexual healing to people less fortunate than they are in the sexual arena.

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