POETRY PAM SCHWETZ

FORGIVE YOURSELF FIRST

FORGIVENESS STARTS WITH YOU

DO YOU KNOW THAT IS TRUE

FORGIVE YOURSELF FIRST

BEFORE YOU JUST BURST

HOLDING FEELINGS IN

YOU WILL NEVER WIN

RESENTMENT CAN CAUSE PAIN

BUT LET ME EXPLAIN

YOU'RE HARDEST ON YOURSELF

MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE

 
Author's Notes/Comments: 

i'M ALWAYS HEARING ABOUT FORGIVING BEING A GOOD THING TO DO. THEY SAY YOU DON'T  EVEN HAVE TO TALK TO TTHE PERSON YOU ARE FORGIVING...THAT IT'S MORE FOR YOU THAN THEM. FOR ALL YOU KNOW THEY AREN'T EVEN SORRY OR MAYBE NOT AWARE OF THE PAIN THEY CAUSED YOU. WHAT I DON'T HEAR THEM SAY IS FORGIVE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE ANYONE ELSE.  I THINK WE ARE HARDEST ON OURSELVES. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. WE ALL TRUST THE WRONG PEOPLE SOMETIMES. I THINK  IF WE OWN UP TO OUR OWN CHOICES THAT GOT US IN THOSE SITUATIONS AND THEN JUST FORGIVE YOURSELF FIRST OR EVEN NOT HAVE TO  FORGIVE ANYONE ELSE CUZ ONCE YOU CAN DO THAT YOU SHOULD FEEL RELIEF AND RELEASE ...JUST A THEORY THAT CAE TO ME TODAY  SO I THOUGHT TO WRITE A POEM ABOUT IT.