Broken & Bruised Women

My answer might be different from yours

Where can I find love and commitment?

You have to find out what type of men that attracts you.

No, I can’t tell you how many times I had to turn my radio off in the middle of a love song.

My heart has been broken too many times. How can I fall in a category to where you want me and I don’t want the other man that is trying?

Tell me love where did my relationship go wrong?

Of course I had different men in my life I loved each one of them very differently.

I treated none better than the other one. I have been sitting back thinking to myself it is my personality or me.



I am still alone…

What is the problem?

Was it he or I?



They say when us women have trouble committing

We are often subconscious or ruining or chancing in a relationship. I don’t understand my problem… #1 I bring old baggage in a relationship with any man and I should leave it where it came from. We are so busy trying to love a man when we can’t love ourselves. Everyone that gets into a relationship has a pattern. I sometimes sit and wonder if all the men are the exact same. I really can’t say men are scared to commit, but that’s cool with me.

Furthermore, when you tell yourself what the problem was all that time it was your mate. you rob yourself of your very own standards.

Yes women it is so true that men have their own problems too.

But, love is a dangerous game. you can’t use that word too often it has meanings to it… Tell me baby is it something that I overlooked in our relationship. Tell me baby I want to know so that I can get it straight.



I want to find a good man, but I wonder if he really existed. When we get with some of these men we tell them that we don’t need them being a Independent Woman isn’t really bad at all… By men being a lonely woman I want it all to be loved, cared for, treated like a queen and more. I won’t get so close to men … Why I say this is I don’t like to be hurt in no form or fashion. I am a woman…A woman of standards. I can set my pride aside and live my life to the fullest…



My next step is to look into the mirror and ask myself this Why Me?

Why am I the one that is so lonely and broken hearted? Sometimes I feel if I get into a relationship again will it still be the same as all the others. you have to experience the love that I had & got hurt by it.  you really don’t want to feel that pain, because that is not a good feeling. I pray to God asking why am I so alone.

When I cry in the night hours who can I run to noone but God he have that special king of love for me that man can’t give… As those years went by I forgave the men that I use to date for everything that they have done to me in my entire life…

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I have been there and feeling all that was said.... Awsome girl!!! You go girl!!!