The most important thing ive learned, ever.

The single most IMPORTANT thing i learned during 2011: their is NO such thing as friends FOREVER or LOVE. ALL people are disposable, either from geological moves, jail, addictions, change, death, and finding out who someones TRUE intentions are. no one will ever be a part of your life from start to finish. I count the HOURS (not days,weeks,months nor years) that the people i know now will ALL just VANISH into thin air to NEVER be heard from again. its a viscous cycle. but i guess according to life's terms its a NECESSARY one, well to ME it is at least. ALL FRIENDS ARE DISPOSABLE.

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the sad truth.

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SSmoothie's picture

Wow when that starts

Wow when that starts happening I do one of two things, find somewhere better to hangout or take a look at myself and wonder why... Neither helps ;) just saying hope you find some of the good stuff, hard to keep, but anything *hard is rewarding. *Yeah that cheeky thought crossed my mind too ;) nice caps.


Don't let any one shake your dream stars from your eyes, lest your soul Come away with them! -SS    

"Well, it's love, but not as we know it."

LitBlackRose's picture

I guess UR right friends will

I guess UR right friends will come and go in your life but u can still remember the happy times you had with UR friend right? Some friends might even be I. Contact with u till you die you ever no but all you really hav to do is friend a true friend that will stand nest to you as a true friend

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I think your only true friend

I think your only true friend is your self the universe sends us what we need when we need it, not what we want, wanting provides passion a drive, think of it a little this way, we have gifts and talents these are easy as to do and other people value them more than we do because it's easy for us, then we have passion, a passion is something you want to be good at, that's why you spend so much time on it. If you find a passion and a friend who shares that passion then you have a life long friend. If you want a crew and expect back up you need to form a clique. These require endless hours of showing off. I find that boring. Then there's gangs. No thanks I like to own myself. I have always been there for myself and as a result my friends who I require nothing but occasional conversation an non committal gatherings are always there. The minute I need something they will offer as do I. But we don't over do it so we don't over stay our welcome. Hope you find a way to get what you need. You seem quite an interesting an talented person from yr work cheers SS.


Don't let any one shake your dream stars from your eyes, lest your soul Come away with them! -SS    

"Well, it's love, but not as we know it."